Tag: teens

  • How to Navigate ‘Difficult’ Parental Relationship

    How to Navigate ‘Difficult’ Parental Relationship

    In our last blogpost we talked about why people cut off their parents- we stated 5 reasons. Today, we talk to children on how to navigate relationship with ‘difficult’ parents so it does not lead to estrangement. Whether you are considering cutting off your parents or might have already, this is for you. Truth be…

  • BLOG HIGHLIGHTS FROM MAY 2023

    BLOG HIGHLIGHTS FROM MAY 2023

    Guys, May is done. Today is the last day of May! I know, how can it be? Hard to believe, but here we are. So, we have some blog highlights for you! This month of May is (or was) Mental Health Awareness Month. And, we discussed some interesting topics pertaining to mental health. As it…

  • HOW TO TALK TO YOUR TEEN ABOUT THEIR MENTAL HEALTH

    HOW TO TALK TO YOUR TEEN ABOUT THEIR MENTAL HEALTH

    Parents and guardians, how do you talk to your teen about their mental health? Better question is do you talk to them about their mental health? Below is a story about how Wuraola has been having trouble dealing with her mental health. So, she decides to seek comfort from her parents. “Mom and Dad, I…

  • DOES HAVING SEX COME WITH CONSEQUENCES?

    DOES HAVING SEX COME WITH CONSEQUENCES?

    Believing Sex Comes Without Consequences – Excerpt from Guys are Waffles, Girls are Spaghetti Below is an excerpt from a book I read with teenagers a while back- “Guys are Waffles, Girls are Spaghetti”. The chapter highlights how young people act when they believe sex comes without consequences, this excerpt focuses on the girls.  If…

  • No Daddy, I am not Ready!!!

    No Daddy, I am not Ready!!!

    It was the year 2003, December 1st was fast approaching, my daddy had promised to buy me Christmas outfit this year, and the hunt starts by December 1st. There was a two-year ban on buying new clothes for me because my Dad thought I was getting too ‘boogie’. I needed to learn how to be…

  • Welcome to LoudSilences- Turn it Up!

    My name is Ann Adefuye, a.k.a Anita (nee Young-Itiye). I am Nigerian (soon to also be Canadian). I am from the Kalabari tribe (Rivers State) in the South-South Region of Nigeria. I also regard myself as Yoruba- by marriage. I have three great passions that will be driven through this platform- teenagers & young adults,…